Here's the story.

Dearest blog, 


It's 7 in the A.M. here in lonely little Bluffton, Sc and I'm sitting in bed drinking classic Dr. Pepper and thinking. One would think that a friendship 8 years in the making wouldn't go down the drain like it did, but it did. Not only was I a great friend to Sebrina but I was a great friend to her mom and her little brother.  I was there when they seemed to have nobody. In the long run what happened? They turned on me and my boyfriend. 


Now let's get this straight. I've never done anything negative towards Sebrina and her family. Sure, Sebrina isn't the brightest crayon in the box but these days there aren't very many of those anyways. I've never thought any less of her and her family. She lives in a trailer just like I grew up in. About 3 years ago I moved into a house with my parents and Sebrina and her family seemed to not like that. I never thought any less of them though. I still went over to see them every weekend if not during the week as well. But October 10, 2010 I moved in with my boyfriend Adam. 


I introduced Adam to Sebrina and her family so they could say what they would about him. Make sure he was a good one. :) They loved him. I thought this was fantastic. I mean, what girl doesn't want people they seen as family to love their boyfriend? They never spoke negatively about Adam, they liked him and all was well. Just so happens that Sebrina's boyfriend (Joseph, who moved in with them) needed a ride home from work. Well, this wouldn't be a problem if his job wasn't out of the way from where we live and where I work. So like anyone who is about to go out of the way to get a friend, Adam said that he would get Joseph. Well, I knew that if Adam went to pick up Joseph then we'd be low on gas in the car and I didn't have any money on me and if we were out of gas then I couldn't get to work. So I called Sebrina and asked if they could chip in some gas money. She got mad, said they didn't have any, and hung up on me. And that's when the drama started. 


About 3 days ago I commented on a status that belonged to this girl named Skye (who I grew up living next door to and Sebrina lived in the same neighborhood). Skye put on her status "m not in to it i played the game and im not in to it i like real niggas you and really get the FUCK away from me cuz i'll fuck you up i aint about fake im about real" (I copied and pasted that from her status). Now mind you, Skye is 15 and she's speaking this way. So I simply asked her "Why you always talking shit about people?" (Again, copied and pasted) And that's when Sebrina jumped in. See, I told Skye she needed to learn more words other than curse words because only ignorant people use curse words to describe everything all the time. She doesn't really know what "ignorant" means other than knowing it's an insult. But like I was saying, Sebrina jumped in it thinking that I was saying I was better than them and that I'm only like this because I live with Adam. 


Rewind: Before Sebrina even said anything to me, she messages Adam and attacks him telling him I'm not happy with him and pretty much saying he should be lucky to have me and for me to be with "the likes of him". There's nothing wrong with Adam. He's a great guy. A lot better than the guys I've dated in the past. Not only did Adam NOT have anything to do with what I said to Skye, Sebrina got her mom into the mix and both of them teamed up on him. Now at this time I was at work so I had no idea this was going on until I called Adam. 


Now what makes this all so bad, is I never said anything to Sebrina and yet her and her mother turned on me and Adam. Evidently because she didn't like that I told Skye she needed a higher vocabulary. Now to me, that's not something to throw away a friendship for, but for her, I guess it is. Which is fine with me, I just think that it's a little strange beings we've been through so much. However, I guess some people you think you know, change on you, turn their backs on you, and throw you away. 


I think it has something to do with the fact that we share another mutual friend named Kayla. Sebrina and Kayla were pretty good friends as well, but when Kayla started to drive and had her own car, Sebrina kind of left me out in the cold. Sebrina always asked Kayla to take her places even if it was 2 in the morning. So I kind of think that because I told Sebrina we needed gas money, she took it as "Well, Kayla never made me pay for anything." and just wanted to use Adam and I like she did Kayla. I don't know if you've noticed, but I'm not one that likes being used, nor will I stick up with it. 


Sometimes I just don't know, blog.  People switch up on you when you never expect it. But I suppose I am better than they are because I would never have turned my back on them the way they did me and Adam. I'm a better friend than that.